by Molly Laws

If you have broken up with your ex and getting your ex back is the number one thing on your mind, you are probably not feeling too good just now. A break up is painful at any time, let alone when you still care for your ex.

All you can think about is getting your ex back – but how do you make it happen? And importantly, how do you make it romantic motivationhappen sooner rather than later? When you are full of emotions it can be hard to work this out.

Getting your ex back may not be the easiest thing you have ever done. But it isn’t impossible. There are ways to make it happen.

There may not be a magic solution to your dilemma but that does not mean there isn’t a process you can follow that will give you the best possible chance of getting your ex back. But first you need to accept that the solution will not be immediate and you have to get your emotions under control.

No strategy for getting you ex back will work unless you achieve the right state of mind – be realistic but positive too. And most of all, stop feeling sorry for yourself and wearing your heart on your sleeve.

Do your best to behave normally, even if normal is the last way you feel. Go to work, go to classes, see your friends. Do the things you would normally do. Act like you feel fine and all is well with the world.

If that seems impossible to do then pretend you feel fine. Believe it or not if you pretend to feel ok you’ll start to feel better.

Once you have your emotions under control it will be time to start working to get your ex back. There are ways to do this so take heart, and be patient.

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