Archive for October, 2008

by Bridget Johnson

Do you need encouragement words or is it someone close to you? This article is what you need right now especially if your issue is about moving on from a broken relationship. Take sometime and read about words of encouragement for you or your loved one.

ex girlfriend backFinding a life partner is the greatest thing in life. Someone to spend the rest of your life with. To love for richer for poor. The practical aspect of it all is, it is challenging to find that person. In the same way, having to let go of that cherished person because of circumstances is even more difficult. In such times, encouragement words may seem like the only thing to save the situation.

This is when only encouragement words can make sense. Words can not simply take away the pain but they can help ease up the pain even if it is just for a while.

It is important to keep in mind that people grief in different ways. Some people who are coming out of a bad relationship might just need your presence as a friend. To laugh, talk about the good times you’ve had together and just to undertake all jolly activities. Some may need a friend to listen nothing more but just to sit and listen.

Do not get tired if they just want to talk about their ex lover or relationship in general. It might not be a bad idea to let the person speak and cry if need be. Lending and ear can do wonders to those in pain.

If you are the one who needs encouragement words if that is the case, visit some interactive websites where you can share your pain with people who are willing to listen and encourage you. There are a number of forums, support groups and chartrooms that offer free support, poems and cards in order to help people who have lost their loved ones or divorced.

Nowadays it is easy to find free inspirational content by using the internet. It is not a bad idea to buy a book that can help take away any form of depression and hopelessness and instead inspire and motivate you to face life with zest.

It is a matter of fact that, once you gain the best understanding of motivation and how it transform your life, then you will start living it to the fullest. It might not be easy to take this in, but it is not the end of the world really, it is okay to cry just as long as you never forget that life goes on and you are in it.

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by Joanne Roibu

Sometimes, we just don’t know enough about what we are trying to achieve. Stuart Wilde

If I had a penny for each time clients ask the question….

What do I need to do to guarantee my goal achievement?

Get Clear, Get Clear, Get Clear… Crystal Clear about what you want to achieve. This step is often the one that most prospective clients think they have mastered but really have not. When they arrive at my office, they are surprised to find out that in fact they weren’t clear at all about what they want to achieve.

Yes, but how do you know if you are clear?

Start by asking yourself a few simple questions.
Can you succinctly state what it is that you want? Can you explain why you want this?
How will you feel when you’ve achieved your goal?

The all time favorite goal that a lot of people have is to be rich. Excellent. What is rich to you? Is it having $10,000, $1,000,000 or $100,000,000? Or maybe it is being able to take 3 holidays a year in 5 star hotels. Or traveling the world.

Next, ask yourself why you want this. Let’s say that you’ve established that rich, to you, means having $1,000,000. Ok. Why do you want this $1,000,000? I am sure that you do not want to simply amass bank notes. What do you want this money for? Is it that you want to exchange the money for luxury vacations, or to become debt free, or buy the home you always dreamed of…go ahead, you fill in the blanks.

What’s next… now that you know What you want and Why?

Once you determine exactly why you want to achieve your goal, establish how achieving this goal makes you feel. This part is always very enlightening. Ask yourself what your life will be like. Picture it if you are visual, feel it if you are sensory, or think it if you have a more cognitive nature. The point is get to the essence of why you want what you want.

What is Essence?

Let me first say that this step is as critical as the ones before, because, you see, the essence is the crucial, and often unchanging, element of what you want to achieve. You must take the time to really feel the essence of what the goal achieved represents for you.

You know that doing what you’ve always done gets you more o what you already have…undesirable result.

Go ahead. Take this different approach and ask yourself:
1) What do I want?
2) Do I really want it? Why do I want it?
3) What is the unchangeable, unique element of how achieving this goal will make me feel?

You are reading this article, so I don’t need to convince you that you are ready to have a different outcome.

To Your Continued Success and Passion!
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